Not wanting to give a blowjob was hurting her biz!

I had a client once ask for advice on how to better give a bj to her new/larger boyfriend.

However when she asked I knew there was more to the question.

I asked why was avoiding giving bjs now.

She couldn’t believe I knew.

I asked because I knew some techniques could be discussed but that as sexual as she was, she was actually avoiding it now.

Through my questions we were able to identify that she no longer enjoyed bjs because he was the first man she really felt serious with and thought it could be love.

With others she would use it as a means to control the guy and make him want her but stay disconnected.

The reason it was different now was that in her religious school she was taught by nuns that oral sex was a sin because you couldn’t look your partner in the eye.

Because she now felt it could be love, she couldn’t do it anymore because it was a sin.

This was a revelation to her but also a direct link to an area she was struggling with in business.

When she had signed a high end, long term client, she changed her behaviour.

She started to doubt herself, questioned the very techniques and knowledge she had used in group programs and with shorter term clients that had gotten her clients great results.

All because of a program belief passed on through shame and guilt relating to blow jobs.

#Mindsex is seriously the key to more money and deeper satisfaction!

Ready for your bj?

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